• 1660 Destruction of Safed - Near destruction of the Jewish community
  • 1834 Safed Pogrom - Killing and raping of Jews and destruction of homes and synagogues
  • 1838 Safed Pogrom - Druze and…

so yesterday I was at home and listening to the radio with someone who I’d totally call my second mother

and we were listening to some BEAUTIFUL songs and I mentioned that I’d love, if I ever get married, to have them as my couple’s first dance (I’m one of those girls who has had her wedding planned to the tiniest details since she was a little girl)

and I told her that if I marry a woman (Id already came out to her as bi and she took it pretty ok) I’d find a cover sung by a woman that didn’t change the genders

and she told me something like “no don’t marry a woman I want you to have kids I want to be a grandma.” which kinda really irked me.

like I get it, I wanna have kids no matter what (I REALLY want kids), but I plan on having them no matter who I marry. and that’s 100% possible.

and, like, for many ppl that would be super offensive, but for me I was just really irked.



little things that help ease symptoms of depression:

  • turn the lights on and open a window
  • eat something healthy and drink ice cold water
  • find a comforting album to listen to whenever things get bad
  • take a long, relaxing bath
  • do yourself up in full make up and hair
  • be around people, even if you don’t think it will help
  • watch something funny on netflix
  • wear your favorite/most comfortable outfit
  • immerse yourself in a hobby like drawing
  • lose yourself in a really good book or movie